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You Shall Not Take God’s Name in Vain

Thursday, October 5th, 2006

What do Bar girls, the corporate world, Madison Avenue, and churches (those other churches, of course) have in common?   They are counterfeiters.  Ok, not always, but often enough to be included in this discussion.  Swearing is one thing, but counterfeiting is something else altogether.


In Hebrew grammar classes one learns that the picture behind this commandment is that of a person holding God’s name up to emptiness, or emptying God’s name of God.  All kinds of examples come rushing to one’s mind.  In Losing Moses On The Freeway Chris Hedges chooses the list above from other possibilities.  He makes a very important point.  This chapter (Decalogue III) is a vital one to digest as foundational to entire subject of the ten commandments.  His examples show bar girls counterfeiting love, corporations counterfeiting personal value, Madison Avenue counterfeiting personal worth, and church counterfeiting righteousness.  The following quote is key: 


“We all want to be loved, to be needed.  We turn, when lonely, also to charlatans who soothe us, who tell us we are valuable and important, but who regard us in the paneled warrens of their spacious offices as pawns to move on a chess board.  The television evangelists have tapped into this burning need.  God will bless us, shower us with wealth and success, as long as we mail in the checks.  We are used and eventually discarded by the institutions where we work.  They manipulate us for their own gain, holding out the promise of status, respect and love.  They create false communities, ones that strive to push us to identify with the goals and prestige of the corporation or the nation or the church.  It is not unconditional love.  It is very conditional love.  When we fail to please the god of production and profit, when we fall afoul of the rigid codes of behavior imposed upon us, when we question dogma or rules, when we denounce injustices. We are thrust into exile…” (p 57)


So what does this have to do with the commandment?  Everything.  The Church is in one sense the Body of Christ.  The church is to be to its members as Christ incarnate.  As the body of Christ, the church promises unconditional love, honesty, unqualified nurture, authentic community, unlimited forgiveness, and absolute integrity.  To intentionally violate these promises robs Christ’s name (and by inference God’s name) of God’s essence - robs God’s name of God.  We will make mistakes; people will get hurt.  We will fail to be longsuffering with some who test our patience or drain our resources.  We will sometimes react out of fear of conflict and let a wrong go unseen and its victim’s suffering go unaddressed.  These mistakes are not counterfeiting God’s name.  It’s the thoughtful destruction of someone’s character, the obvious exclusion of the unappealing, the reasoned undermining of gospel order (good process), the dishonest effect of half-truths, the lies in innuendo, the cruel twisting of a phrase, the scape-goating of loss, hurt, or failure, the self-righteousness of those whose sins don’t show, the self-serving boundaries that exclude the most needy, and similar acts of the collective or individual will, that rob the church of God, and thereby violate this commandment.  It is these latter acts of cruelty and dishonesty that conterfeit Christ’s character and conterfeit the kind of belonging that is Christian community.


This commandment calls us to be scrupulous in our relationships within our community.  It calls us to live humbly and meekly in full recognition of our own weaknesses, biases, and pride.  It calls us to lay our vested interests at the feet of Christ and bow to Christ’s leading and direction regardless of the intensity of our opinions.  It calls us to consider the feelings of each and every member of our family before we act on our feelings and/or observations.  It calls us to forgive (really forgive) those who have wronged or disappointed us, it calls us to sacrifice for the growth and benefit of others, etc etc. (you can finish the list.)  It also calls us to be authentic in presenting the gospel story to our community and in our relationship to our neighbors.  We rob Christ’s name of meaning when we display un-Christ-like attitudes and actions and insist that such behavior is righteous. 

When others come among us will they find authenticity or counterfeit goods?  This is a very complex and challenging question.  Have fun with these concepts.  Those of you who don’t have the book may have some refreshing insights to offer.  Your comments are invited.


Imposter Gods (Notes from 9-24-06 sermon)

Thursday, September 28th, 2006

The Cosmic Vending Machine or Cosmic Bellhop God             God’s main function is to love and serve me (us).  If I put in a prayer, God owes me a certain result.  God’s main function in prayer is to answer my requests. Etc…you get the picture.  Such a God betrays God’s passion for relationship.
The God of Just Deserts            This imposter is in charge of carrying out our concept of justice or our agenda towards those whose actions/beliefs offend us.  This punitive God must make sure everyone pays for their sins and/or gets what they deserve.  Such a God betrays God’s mercy and grace.
The God of Limited Freedom             This imposter is a God who is held hostage by our understanding of God’s promises, word, and/or character.  God has to do this because “The Word” says so.  This is the God behind the popular health and wealth teaching.  Our understanding of “the law” or our view of what is right must be carried out by God.  Jesus demonstrated that the laws were created for humanity, not humanity for the laws.  In Exocus 33:19 God reminds Moses, “I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.”   Samuel Wells talks about the story of God being a drama of God turning God’s unlimited freedom into covenants and humanity turning their limited freedom into prisons.   Sometimes, when Christians insist that God fit into their small view, they not only imprison God, but imprison themselves as well.  This God betrays God’s sovereignty. 
The Gnostic God              This is the God of secrets, not mystery.  This imposter God doles out special favors to those who “discover” hidden secrets. Books with titles such as “Unlocking The Secret of God’s (you fill in the blank)” lead us to believe that God shows favoritism to those who have somehow read the right book, or discovered the right prayer, or have in some way stumbled onto a way to get more out of God via some bit of previously hidden information.  This God says there is a magic formula for healing, defeating sin, or releasing God’s wealth into our coffers.  When the disciples could not cast out a demon like Jesus they wanted to know his secret.  He said, “These things only come through prayer and fasting.”  That’s no secret.  As one matures in faith one does find one’s prayers and ministry becoming more effective, and a growth in one’s ability to discern God’s voice.  This imposter betrays God’s justice.

You Shall Not Kill

Wednesday, September 20th, 2006


“Bishop George Packard has a burden.  He carries it with him.  There are times in his sleep when it overpowers him and wakes him, leaving him to wrestle through the night with shadows.  There are days when stress mounts, the memories suddenly bursting around him in unpleasant succession.  And in the ticking of the clock, the race toward oblivion that is the fate of all human beings, he seeks atonement in everything he does as a husband, a father and an Episcopal priest.”  (Loosing Moses… p 101)


Bishop Packard’s burden is the price he pays for killing…not murder but killing as a soldier in Vietnam.  Way beyond the politics and questions of morality involved in war is the stark truth that killing of any sort erodes one’s soul irrevocably.  Bishop Packard finds that the sixth commandment, “You shall not kill,” dominates his life, and his years of giving life as a priest hasn’t satiated his thirst for forgiveness/atonement.  The fact that he was doing his duty as a patriot and citizen does not seem to help.  “When my life is over,” he said, “when in those last 30 seconds that I am fighting for breath in some room, I will make a plea to God. I will say that I did the best I could in the oddities life gave me. I will ask to be forgiven.” ( p 114)


“Where was God in Vietnam?  It is the question all who have been to war face, for war is a Godless endeavor.  When love, compassion and human kindness are replaced by the vast, grotesque panorama of violence and destruction of war, God is banished.  Human beings, who have the freedom to choose good and evil, cannot find within them the power of the divine when they embrace a world of sin.  At that moment they shut out the divine.  And war is a state of almost unadulterated sin” (p104)


Added to war are the specters of addictions, sex trade, environmental poisonings, genocide, abuse of women, domestic violence, and unabated starvation.  Each of these is a way of killing and each of these weighs heavily on our hearts and consciences.  In the background the sixth commandment rings with new urgency and poignancy, “You shall not kill.”


Jesus fulfilled this commandment by filling it with the command to love.  He filled the commandment with warnings against belittling and destructive anger and stubborn grudges.   There is more at stake than just another’s physical life, there is the essence of a person that can be “killed” in a variety of ways short of murder.  He urged reconciliation and restoration in response to being wronged.   Also, James states clearly in his letter that war’s origin is greed, covetousness, and selfishness. (James 4:1-4)  When seen in the light of day, all killing springs from those same motives.


This coming Sunday, as you visit the “Stations of Mercy” you will become aware of how we all are indirectly complicit in some of these ways of killing.  It would be easy to become overwhelmed.  I would encourage you to prayerfully seek God’s counsel at each station and ask if there is some response that God would have us/you make. 

You shall have no other God’s before Me

Monday, September 11th, 2006

Chapter One:  Mystery 

As a young seminarian and aspiring youth minister, Chris Hedges entered a world too big for his God.  His God at that time was his own virtue, his aspirations of being a man of God, and his desire to “make a difference.”  In this first pastoral placement, buried deep in the slums of Roxbury, New Jersey, Hedges discovered that he wasn’t able to live into even his minimum expectations for his life and ministry.  He ended up at war with his church and literally at war with the drug-addicted thugs on “his street.”  When the promised attempt on his life became a reality he left the slums, the church, the ministry, and their associated institutions.  He left the church in which he had found his “last refuge from God” and with leaving experienced the shattering of all moral certitude.  He ends this chapter with these autobiographical reflections, “Before God we all are powerless.  We are all afraid.  It is in this fear, this darkness, that I found God, even as I thought I was fleeing from God.  I abandoned the institutions that claimed God’s authority. I walked down Parker Street the night I smashed that bottle on the church doors, leaving the light, and entering ‘the darkness where God was.’”
Hedges imposter God was a God without mystery, a God who rewarded virtue with powerful ministry and success, a God who kept evil and good in distinct and separate worlds, a God centered in Hedges own “virtue,” a God who was blind to the arrogance and pride in Hedges soul.  When it was revealed to Hedges that this God was not God at all, but was an imposter, it was a faith shattering and a self-shattering experience.  In his words, “I had to learn my own complicity in oppression, my own sinfulness, how evil lurked within me, how when I was afraid I could turn on the weak and powerless.”
“You shall have no other Gods before me,” says God in the first commandment.  Its too easy to just assume we are keeping this simple command, and not search our souls deeply enough to recognize that the God we are worshipping might be an imposter – a God we created out of our own expectations, out of our own need to have a God we can trust, or respect.  For many the real God would shatter their faith and their lives.  The real God would neither condemn the right people, nor reward the right people, nor agree with one’s assessment of one’s own virtue, especially in comparison with the virtue of others.
“Here ye O Christians!” The Lord your God is one God.”  This one God will be who God is regardless of the imposters we create to put before God.  Like Chris Hedges experienced in the slums of Roxbury, we will eventually experience the shortcomings of the God we create in our own image, or in the image of a belief system which singles us out for extra rewards or benefits.  I wonder how God would respond if we were to simply ask God to point out the imposter Gods in our midst.  I wonder if we have the courage to examine our God for authenticity.  I wonder.
What do you think about these observations?  What is your own experience?  Keep the conversation alive by posting your response here.
Stan

The Ten Best Ways

Thursday, September 7th, 2006

The best introduction to this series is in the epilogue of “Losing Moses On The Freeway.”  Last things first, I guess.  “By giving up parts of ourselves for others, by accepting that we must be willing to lose life to create an preserve life, we honor the core of the commandments.  The commandments hold out to us the possibility of love….  We all stray.  We all violate some commandments and do not adequately honor others.  We are human.  But the commandments bind us together.  They work to keep us from revering the false covenants that destroy us….  The commandments are guideposts.  They bring us back, even when we stray, as we all do, to the right path.  They are our protection against the siren calls of glory, wealth and power that will ultimately dash us against the rocks.” ( excerpts from Losing Moses pp 171-176.) 

As we think about the history of the commandments and the rule of law established by Moses at that time, it’s easy to relegate the commandments to “Old Testament Legalism” and ignore them altogether.  Besides, didn’t Jesus’ teaching fulfill or even supercede OT law?  What have the commandments to do with us and our problems today?  Good questions. OK, but what if we take the commandments as reflections of God’s heart and God’s vision for humanity-in-relationship?  What if we chisel away the set-in-stone aura that surrounds them, and move them into the context of New Testament grace?  Don’t they then suddenly burst with new life and new relevance? 

In preparation for worship on the 10th (this Sunday) it might be good to reflect on how you see the principles behind the commandments operating in our place and time.  Notice how covetousness, deceit, theft, envy, and idolatry work themselves out in our world of increasing violence, fear, and intolerance.  Notice, on the other hand, how love, generosity, honesty, honor, peace, and integrity work themselves out in our world today. Notice how these things, both positive and negative, effect your life, the life of your family, the lives and experiences of people in your workplace, and in our community. 

God’s best comes to us through our clear understanding of God’s “ways.”  Those ways reflect divine wisdom and a creator’s understanding of human nature.  As Chris Hedges points out in his epilogue from which I quoted above, the foundational concepts behind the commandments have to do with love.  Our love for God, God’s love for us, our love of neighbor, and our love of Life lived at its best, all find expression in the intentional living out of God’s heart as expressed in these ten commandments. 

A fun exercise might be to look at Christ’s teaching in one of the gospels and identify which of the commandments are reflected in His words.  How does Christ’s life and example fulfill the commandments?

 

From Laurie Conant

Thursday, July 14th, 2005

I was moved by the “First Word” that Laurie shared in worship last Sunday. I asked her if I could post them here:

“When our first daughter was born, the doctor did not give us much hope that she would live. As we watched her suffer and struggle for each breath, we felt
so helpless. It was unbearable to watch her suffering. She amazed everyone by surviving and with no disabilities from her illness.

When our second daughter was five months old, we rushed her to the hospital. Again, we were not given much hope for survival. As they wheeled her into
surgery, the nurses stopped the gurney and let me kiss her goodbye. I did not know if I would see her alive again. She made it through the surgery and has had
no complications since.

Over the years as I have looked back over these two experiences, I can see what God was doing through them. He was saying, “Look, pay attention, look at
what I am giving you. These children are a precious gift from Me that I am giving to you to raise.”

When your children are handed back to you from the brink of death, you do not take their lives for granted or the responsibility of raising them lightly.

As I see all the children God is blessing this church family with, I am reminded that we have an incredible responsibility to them and to God to teach
them, nurture and love them and to raise these children in the Lord’s ways.

Our children are a gift, a blessing from God and we need to make sure we do not forget that.”

Laurie Conant

Loose Threads

Thursday, June 30th, 2005

There are several conversations going on among NVFC folks. They involve a significant number of people but not all of them are talking to each other. Some of them I am a part of and some not, but I thought it would be good to let you know what’s being discussed so that you can get in on the conversation(s) that interests you.

1. Sunday School Teachers A lot of us are scratching our heads trying to figure out why, in a church so committed to kids, that it so hard to find people willing to help out with Sunday School. Lots of ideas are floating around about why that is: 1. Some who have done it for a long time are burned out and wish some new blood would take over. 2. Some who have kids themselves find Sunday AM one of the few times they get to have adult interaction and love knowing that they can trust the SS teachers and helpers with their kids for an hour a week. 3. Its way scary. 4. It feels like a job one could get trapped in forever. 5. Not gifted in that area. Etc. What should be done? Is there something that needs to change about the program itself?
Are there reasons that haven’t been thought of? What are some possible solutions? (brainstorm)

If you want to weigh in on this conversation talk to Kim Boyd, Lynn Clouser Holt, Scot Headly, or someone else on the CE committee.

2. Committee in general There are several conversations about how to make church work more rewarding, how to make business flow more smoothly, how to avoid long, boring meetings, how to involve lots more people in the nuts and bolts of our mission, etc etc. The conversations have sort of gelled into an ad hoc committee (Keith Baker, Stan, Rebekah Schneiter, Scot Headly, Jenny Crackenburg, Myrlene Rourke, Wes Cropper) which is brainstorming about changing our committee structure to reflect the needs and work style of the people of NVFC. We’re talking about changing some of the committees to task forces. The advantage is that the task forces would meet just when there was something to do and/or when there was a project to plan. A task force could draw on about anyone who might just stay on for one project. They would only report to AD COM when they needed to. They could have unlimited numbers of people interested in their area of responsibility but wouldn’t have to worry about gathering them all together for meetings. Another idea would be to let everyone select an area of interest which would automatically put them on a task force in that area. When there was something that needed to be done in that area, everyone on that list would be contacted and invited to participate if they desired. That way, everyone would be included but wouldn’t have to feel obligated to participate in every activity the task force chose to do. Also, Nominating committee would only have to find two or three people to head of a task force because others would be recruited for short-term service as projects came up. If you would like to join that conversation you could meet with the ad-hoc committee (next meeting 7-05-05) or chat with one of the members about your ideas.

3. Business There is a conversation going on about how to make business meetings more effective. Sometimes people see it as just rubber-stamping work that’s been done by AdCom or some other committee. Other see it as a slow moving meeting during which brain squeezing minutiae is endlessly debated. Early Friends called it “meeting for worship for business” - how do we get back to that so that business meetings are places we actually do discernment, where personal agendas give way to listening only for God’s voice? How do we make sure the minutiae which doesn’t lend itself to discernment are taken care of in some other venue without giving up the ideal that everyone’s leading is important? This conversation is mostly happening in Administrative committee but I have noticed a fair amount of discussion in the foyers and hallways about it too. You can go to Keith, one of the Team, someone on Ad Com if you care to ask questions and/or make suggestions.